it would be nice if you have sense of humor or are a good recipient of sense of humor. It would be really nice, if you are not always waiting for the other shoe to drop and are rather open to, sometimes good unexpected, surprises. It would be really, really nice if you are also not overtly paranoid, (you already know that I am/nobody is not good for you anyway) and even nicer if you think it is never too late something new and different