I’m looking for someone who is born and/or raised here in the US, preferably with a Kirim-Turk background like myself. Being born and growing up here as first generation involves have a foot within each culture and it’s a juggling act. Only someone who has gone through a similar experience can relate to me. I am active in my cemiyet and cami. I am quiet by nature and don’t open up readily. My mom and I are close and you need to be understanding that she is a priority to me. I am allergic to cigarette smoke, so a non-smoker partner is a must. I work for NYPD and I deal with the public all day. I need a solid reassuring haven at home with my partner who is understanding about my job. You should be financially stable and secure in your career. That you have some skills in the kitchen and enjoy cooking. Proper table manners/etiquette, being respectful, and responsible goes a long way with me. I do prefer a gentleman who is clean-shaven, but I will admit, some men can sport a beard and mustache and look good. If you feel that you have the criteria that I’m looking for, I would like to correspond with you and possibly meet up. If I don’t respond, please don’t take it personally, there are other potential partners out there for you too. Good luck in your search